Yes, sex chat rooms like Instant Chat are meant for adults to meet and talk about, well, sex, but that doesn’t mean that it’s always easy to get women to chat with you. This is especially true since there’s a greater amount of men in these rooms, usually, than women. You need to find a way to stand out and compete amongst all the other men in the room to get a private chat with a girl, and move from the room to something like text messaging, or if the site allows it, private conversation between you two.
So how can you improve your chances of private sex chatting with women?
Sounds simple right? But you’d be surprised at the amount of entitlement men feel to sex chatting with women, and think that just because they are on this site, they should be able to talk to anyone. Women and men alike visit sex chat rooms for a pleasurable experience, and are looking to relieve stress, sexual frustrations, or just get some masturbation content. But whatever their reason for being there, you aren’t entitled to anything from anyone.
When you act respectfully, you’re more likely to get the attention of a woman on the chat than the guys who are just asking for nudes or being disrespectful.
Don’t Be Desperate
Nobody likes a beggar, especially when it comes to sex chatting. Don’t be that guy in the room who’s desperately seeking a woman to chat with, pestering every girl who enters the room. No one will be willing to chat with you that way.
Also, don’t be the guy messaging every girl to share her nudes with you, or worse, send the unwanted dick pic.
It’s always better to take control of the situation, and in this case, you have nothing to lose by asking a few girls if they’d like to chat with you. But once again, be nice, don’t be desperate when asking, and don’t ask too many girls. If you approach them the right way, chances are a couple of girls will be down to sex chat with you because after all, that’s what they’re there for.
Look For Open Invitations
Throughout the chat room, you’ll notice that some women actually ask if there are any guys in the room who’d be down to talk privately and are looking for some fun. While you should always be wary of these invitations for scams and fakes, usually, they’re genuine invitations. On most chat rooms, you can direct your reply to a specific user, so if you see someone send something in the room asking if any guys would like to chat, just directly reply to her,x and maybe she’ll choose you!
Chances are you won’t get a sex chat partner right away when entering the room, and it could be a minute before you find one. Just as long as you don’t give up, your persistence will pay off eventually. Getting frustrated at the fact that you haven’t found anyone to sex chat privately with yet will only make your search worse.